XIK v XIL

The parties married on 23 February 2013 and have two sons. The wife, a 41-year-old Singapore citizen, stopped working after their first child was born in July 2013 and later held a role in a company the parties set up; the husband, a 45-year-old Australian citizen, works in Papua New Guinea. The wife began divorce proceedings on 17 February 2023 and interim judgment was granted on 24 August 2023. Custody, care and control were agreed, with the children living with the wife.

In Divorce (Transferred) No 688 of 2023, the High Court (Family Division) dealt with division of the matrimonial assets and maintenance. The disputes included the value of the husband's shares in two Australian companies, one unlisted (valued by a jointly appointed expert) and one listed on the ASX on 9 November 2023 but subject to a 24-month escrow. The wife alleged he held undisclosed value in Papua New Guinea companies and a family trust, and sought an adverse inference. Each side alleged the other had spent matrimonial funds without consent after the divorce began: the husband pointed to $69,786.16 of the wife's spending, and the wife to $12,100 he spent buying Ethereum, which he said was for his brother. The wife sought 45% of the assets, child maintenance and a lump sum of $450,000 for herself; the husband proposed 20% for her and lower maintenance.

1. Whether sums spent by either party after divorce proceedings began should be added back to the pool of matrimonial assets
2. Whether an adverse inference should be drawn against the husband for non-disclosure
3. What proportion of the assets the wife should receive in this single-income marriage, and how the escrowed shares should be divided
4. What maintenance should be ordered for the children and the wife

Applying the guidance in TNL v TNK and another appeal and another matter [2017] 1 SLR 609, a substantial sum spent while divorce is imminent or pending must be returned to the pool if the other spouse did not consent, expressly or impliedly. The court held that implied consent could be drawn from the family's established spending, judged against frequency and proportion. Furnishing a new rented home and the children's holidays and activities fitted the family's lifestyle, and the husband's enthusiastic messages about a Bali trip showed approval. But the wife produced no evidence that her luxury purchases, flowers, alcohol and club spending matched past patterns, so $37,414.11 was added back, excluding one food delivery payment. The husband's $12,100 Ethereum spending was also added back, as the wife had not consented.

No adverse inference was drawn. An inference requires a substratum of evidence of concealment. The Ethereum purchases were explained, the listed shares had been disclosed before listing and belated disclosure is not non-disclosure, the Papua New Guinea companies were deregistered or dormant, and financial capacity alone does not show hidden assets.

Both sides accepted this was a single-income marriage. For marriages of about ten to 15 years, the trend is to award the homemaker 25% to 35%. The wife was the primary caregiver, but her role was not comparable to the wife in BOR v BOS, and an extraordinarily large pool did not justify cutting her share. Since the listed shares could not be sold until 9 November 2025, dividing them in kind let both share the price risk.

For maintenance, the wife, aged 41 with a diploma and children in school, was found to have an earning capacity of $3,000 a month, giving an income ratio of 93.7 : 6.3. Discretionary activities the husband did not agree to were excluded. A lump sum for the wife was appropriate for a clean break, using a multiplicand of $2,600 and, following WGE v WGF, a multiplier of four years.

Teh Hwee Hwee J valued the matrimonial pool at $3,786,958.19 and ordered it divided 72.5 : 27.5 in the husband's favour, with the escrowed listed shares divided in kind and transferred after the escrow period ends, adjusted for assets the wife retained. The husband was ordered to pay all the children's school and education expenses directly and monthly child maintenance of $8,859.81, reducing to $8,172.68 from September 2025, and lump sum maintenance for the wife of $127,200 in instalments. No adverse inference was drawn, and each party bore their own costs.